Yes you can go out and be that outgoing person who just strikes up a conversation with anyone you meet. I have been known to do this, however not everyone is as accepting.
My single friends always used Tinder when I was around and I found it very intriguing. So the games began. I created my profile and started swiping left and right. I felt so judgmental but secretly I loved it. I thought the idea of this app was a very good idea....
Until I got some messages that were out of this world! Men absolutely kill me with what they think women want to hear to get them into bed.
This one man told me that he wanted to read me a bedtime story. While another told me he was going to chain me to his bed and not let me go until I begged to be with him. (Like WHATTT)
Absolutely Kills Me!
I have met up with a couple people. One brought me a flower in a coffee shop. The other one looked nothing like his picture. I did meet up with one more whom I was talking to for while. We had GREAT conversation and it felt really natural to talk to him. We met up and had a great night together and that was that. Never heard from him again.
My first taste of rejection after my last relationship. It hurt like hell but it also helped me realize that this is life now and I am about to go on a trial and error escapade until I find one that fits.
I will keep swiping and I will share my messages with you as they come in because I don't know where they come up with some of these things.
-T